Interracial Dating
By Naomi Foster

For many years, dating outside one's race, religion or culture was unacceptable. Some believed it to be sinful; others disagreed out of ignorance.

However, trends have changed and interracial relationships are fast growing. In 1990, the United States Census Bureau statistics indicated that 5.8 percent of African Americans, 70.6 percent of American Indians, 28.7 percent of Asians and 23.2 percent of other groups dated outside their race.

According to the July 12, 1998 issue of Eagle Tribune, available at http://andovertownsman.com, the USCB statistics show that the number of interracial marriages has increased from 651,000 in 1980 to 1.3 million in 1996, including 337,000 black-white couples and 884,000 white and other races.

A report from College Student Journal, from a survey conducted at East Carolina University in North Carolina, reveals that almost half of their students (49.6 percent) reported that they were open to interracial relationships. Over 92 percent of those who had already dated interracially were willing to do so again.

When asked if she preferred dating Caucasians such as her boyfriend Ryan, Dyon Holland, a Mason sophomore, said, "I really do not prefer any race in particular. I just look at the person. That is how it should be."

Following are some tips for interracial dating.

1. Step outside your comfort zone: Often, people are afraid to try new things because they are accustomed to what they know. Be open to the people you may encounter to explore other opportunities.

2. Ignore language barriers: If you have a little crush on someone that does not quite speak your language, there are plenty of language dictionaries and "Languages for Dummies"-style books to assist you. Remember that a smile is universal! Everyone understands the meaning of a smile.

3. Expand your outlook: The actual date may seem to be the hardest part. People have certain preferences when it comes to foods, activities and family socials. Be open-minded and understanding. The whole purpose is to expand your outlook and thoughts. Instead of seeing it through your own eyes, see it through someone else's.